- Mary Genevieve “Jimmy” Hagedorn
Mary Genevieve “Jimmy” Hagedorn died by choice on April 16, 2019, at the Worcester home of her daughter Francette Cerulli and son-in-law Mick Eckart. They were by her side.
Born February 26, 1921, as the daughter of Odetta Schettig and William Gerald Buck in Wilkinsburg, Pa., Mary was the eighth of 11 children.
After graduating from Wilkinsburg High School during the Great Depression, Mary earned a full scholarship to either college or secretarial school. She chose to attend Grace Martin’s Secretarial School in Pittsburgh so she could help support her family.
She married Nicholas Francis Cerulli before the age of 20 and later moved to Caldwell, N.J. They had five children. Their marriage ended in divorce in 1976. Mary later married Henry G. Hagedorn and moved to Morristown. Their marriage ended in divorce when he sought to curtail her beloved outdoor activities.
Mary’s happiest years were as a single woman when she lived in a garden apartment for 25 years in Lake Hiawatha, N.J. In September 2018, at the age of 97, she chose to move in with her Vermont family and stop driving.
When her youngest child began kindergarten, Mary discovered the joy of the outdoors and began a long career introducing others to the wilderness. In New Jersey, starting in the late 1960s, Mary scouted and helped lead hikes for the Essex County Department of Parks. She was later employed by the Frost Valley YMCA of New York to lead hikes, bike rides and cross-country ski trips, and to organize canoeing expeditions ranging from La Verendrye Provincial Park in Canada to Okefenokee Swamp and the Suwanee River in Georgia.
Mary loved to travel. She visited most of the 50 states in her lifetime, as well as Scandinavia and Alaska through Elderhostel. With her daughter Toni-Lee, she spent six weeks in Europe, one of the highlights of her long life. Mary was pleased to know that part of her would continue to travel on after her death: Her pacemaker will be refurbished and sent to a third-world country.
In her later years, Mary ushered at theaters in the Morristown area, near her home. She drove safely until she was almost 98 and would often drive "the youngsters" in their seventies home after dark.
Though Mary never got a formal college degree, she earned advanced standing in College Level Examination Program tests worth 30 college credits. She read voraciously her entire life. An avid student, she earned Red Cross certificates in first aid, basic canoeing and CPR, and she took introductory and advanced courses in ecology at the Somerset County Nature Center.
Besides her daughter and son-in-law, Mary leaves her sons Mark Cerulli and former wife Frances Moore Cerulli of Cape Cod, Mass., and Kurt Cerulli and wife Mary of Boston; daughter Lynn Phillips and husband Joseph of Marrero, La.; honorary daughter Debbie Cerulli and husband Ray Saulino of Potomac Falls, Va.; son-in-law Ronald Sudol of Boston; grandsons Domenic, Carmine, Christopher, Tovar and Adam; granddaughters Celia, Andrea , Zephyr, Paige, Mary Lindsay, Nicola and Rossella; and great-grandchildren Dylan, Francesca, Antonia, Avery, Gabriel, Ari, Grace, Laura, Benji, Emily, Lily and Thorin. She also leaves her adventure partner Cherryll Short of Montville, N.J., and Cherryll’s daughters Debra Seftel and Terri Short Lyons. Mary was pre-deceased by all of her siblings and by her daughter Toni-Lee Capossela, in November of 2017.
Mary’s family wishes to thank Central Vermont Home Health and Hospice for their excellent and reassuring palliative support during Mary’s final journey, and especially Emily Byrne, DNP, FNP-BC, for believing and supporting Mary’s lucid explanation of why she wanted to exit life when she did.
There are no calling hours. Mary does not want a service for herself, but she regretted that programs at her small neighborhood branch library in New Jersey were being slowly reduced over the years for lack of funding. So she requests that any donations in her memory be sent specifically to the Lake Hiawatha Public Library branch at 68 Nokomis Ave., Lake Hiawatha, NJ 07034.
Those wishing to express online condolences may visit guareandsons.com.