Hey Athena,

So, my wife has a breathtaking ass. I have rimmed it, but I really want to get inside. I've read a lot about it, but I don't know how to sway her toward trying it sober. (We've only tried two times when we were drinking.) What should I do?

Signed,

My Wife's Amazing Ass

Dear MWAA,

It's refreshing to hear the zeal and appreciation you have for your wife's body. I hope you're reminding her how breathtaking she is as often as you can.

That's also the first step to letting her know how badly you want her and her tush. If she gets a regular dose of sincere admiration from you, she'll feel good. And feeling good begets confidence. With that happy combo, she might be far more willing to be adventurous in sexual endeavors.

It's unclear in your letter if you have already asked your wife about this particular booty call. Are you just assuming she'll say no if you broach the subject sans beverages? Or has she already dismissed the idea? If she's rejected it, she must have a good reason. Whatever it is, it's apparently less daunting when she's tossed back a few — so it's not impossible to imagine that you two can overcome this obstacle.

If you're not sure how she feels about a little back-behind playtime, ask her! You might discover that she's game but didn't know how to approach it with you. Or maybe she'll reveal her hang-ups, and you can work through them together to make sure you're both comfortable and satisfied. You might both check out online information about anal sex. And speaking of comfortable, be prepared with your lubrication of choice.

You got married so you could move through life with your dearest companion — who just so happens to have a killer ass. So get to know your honey even more intimately by talking to her, supporting her, and making her feel wanted and loved. Then the fun can really get started.

Yours,

Athena